How To Create Lift-Off…

By , April 3, 2013 6:40 pm

They say it takes up to 65% of an airplane’s fuel just to lift it off the ground.

Do you think that the pilots ever get to the point where they’ve used 55% of their fuel and they look at each other and say, ‘This thing’s not lifting yet, let’s just give up!’

Is there a point where you’ve given it all, the end of the runway is getting closer but you’re still not getting any lift? You just want to give up and walk away from what you’re trying to achieve.

I’ve felt this many times in my life when trying to shift negative patterns and habits that no longer serve me, or when I was putting all my time and effort into starting a new business but still not seeing any of the benefits from all my hard work.

Isn’t it just easier to give up, return to the gate, park up and go get a Starbucks?!

“Sorry folks your flight’s been cancelled, we’re not changing our lives today.”

Pilots know that during take-off there is a point of no return. This comes after a certain amount of throttle and speed has been engaged. You can no longer abort the take off. This is known as the critical point.

This point of no return is also true in our lives when returning to the gate is no longer an option.

Sometimes I feel like I’m tearing down the run way. My intention is clear, and I know that this change is important. I’m uncertain of what’s in front of me, yet I know I don’t want to go back to the old place I’m moving away from. I want to take off and fly; I’m just a little scared of the unknown. Like that pilot, I’ve reached my critical point and take off is my only option if I want to Live On Purpose.

“Most people give up just when they’re about to achieve success. They quit on the one-yard line. They give up at the last minute of the game, one foot from a winning touchdown.”

H.Ross Perot
American billionaire and former U.S presidential candidate

Persistence is a common quality of successful people. Sometimes it’s not going to be easy. You face obstacles and criticism that you may not have been able to predict. Sometimes you may feel that the Universe is testing you to the limit about your commitment to this goal.

It’s going to take a lot of energy to get lift off in your life.

I have learned the practice of persistence. Even when the going gets tough I refuse to give up. Instead I choose to learn and grow from each obstacle as I hang in there. I make my decisions from where I want to be and no matter how hard it seems, I eventually break through and create lift off.

As you are in the process of creating lift off in your own life, allow me to give you a five step safety demonstration.

1.    Fasten Your Seat Belt – Your seat belt is your Intention. It holds you in my seat. It keeps you grounded and secure in knowing your destination. It holds your attention, despite any turbulence (distraction). You can always adjust the strap, hone your focus and return to your intention.

2.    The Life Vest –Your life vest is there in case of the unlikely event of a water landing. It’s about having faith in yourself. Only you can know exactly what your life vest is, but mine are my supportive friends and my coach. What is your life vest?

3.    Read the Safety Card – Here’s a thing about that safety card. Sometimes we need to remind ourselves about the systems and processes that work. Even though we think we know them all too well. Use these systems and processes regularly by being persistent and not giving up after the first attempt because it was hard. It’s working through any obstacles, hanging in there, trusting the process, following the system despite not feeling like it.

4.    Put on Your Own Safety Mask First – The greatest gift that you can bestow on the world is a happy and healthy you. This is all about looking after yourself on many levels: physically, mentally and spiritually. One thing I’ve learned about me is that when things get so bad I forget about self-care. I then make bad decisions and I can’t get lift off. So I have to remember to go back and put on my own safety mask. Place a high value on your own Self-Care, and take good care of yourself.

5.    Enjoy the Flight – People think it’s all about the destination. It’s who you become on the destination. That’s what is so important. In fact who you become as you are creating lift off is more important than getting there.

So ladies and gentlemen…

“Fasten your seatbelts. Seatbacks in the upright position, and tray tables stowed…”

Let’s get this baby in the air!

11 Responses to “How To Create Lift-Off…”

  1. Hi there Elaine,
    Love the aviation theme. But more significantly, the timing of you sending this article could not have been better. I have been awake most of the night, thinking have I done the right thing leaving my job,what if I don’t get any clients and therefore don’t earn any money. I thought my ideas were so good but now I’m doubting them. But, the one thing I do know is that I didn’t want to stay in my old job anymore, I wanted to set up my own business so I have reached the point of no return. I’m going to read and re-read your 5 steps above because they sit so perfectly with me and fingers crossed I get lift off! Have a great trip,
    Very best wishes,

  2. Al says:

    Inspirational, as always Elaine, thank you.

  3. ElaineBailey says:

    Hi Donna,
    Glad you love the theme! Brings back memories ehy?!

    Setting your business up is an awesome thing to do. There will be moments when you question yourself and fear creeps in to question your sanity! Know that it’s part of the process. At these moments I stop, get real clear and go back to my WHY… I re-connect to the reason I wanted to become a business owner in the first place, then I Re-decide and channel my energy towards making things happen.

    Don’t ask yourself ‘Can I really make this work?’ Instead, roll up your sleeves and get the party started: ‘Right… How do I go about making this work!’ Take deliberate action.

    Glad this was helpful for you today – Here’s to your BRILLIANT SUCCESS – I’m holding that space for you 🙂

  4. Karin Mohr says:

    Such a great article, just what I needed to read at this moment, thank you and greetings form Germany!

  5. Janet says:

    Great article, Lainey! Reminds me of the many days when we worked together at SITA. You are so right about all of theses examples. And, like the aeronautic principles that make lift-off happen, it is the dynamics of all of these elements together that make a successful lift-off. The whole is greater than the sum of the parts, so to speak. Wonderful article — very thought-provoking and supportive!

  6. ElaineBailey says:

    Karin – Thank you for sharing and Greetings to Germany! Glad this post helped you today.

  7. elaine says:

    Hey Janet! Thanks so much for this! Yes! I have such fond memories of our SITA days…and plenty of travel too 🙂 Thank you for your thoughts here and thanks so much for the feedback – it means so much.

  8. Natalie says:

    Great post, Elaine, and it really resonates with me. I love all the flying analogies…so appropriate for a frequent flyer like you! Did they come to you while you were sitting on a plane, reading the in-flight magazine and the safety card? In any case, they are brillliant and I will hold them close to me today.

  9. ElaineBailey says:

    Hi Natalie! Thanks for letting me know. Yes! I used to be a Training Manager for Ground Staff and Management in an Airline so this has been part of my life for a very long time 🙂

    Have a beautiful weekend!

  10. Wynn Godbold says:

    Thought of you and this article today when I took to the sky. 🙂

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